Gao Yuanyuan 39 years old: no work, no children, wrinkles, she reconciled with her own happiness

The high circle that disappeared for a long time finally appeared again in front of everyone. She is still fresh and beautiful, laughing quietly in front of the camera. In these years, she is not in the rivers and lakes, but the rivers and lakes are full of her legends. The famous Tiger Fighting Forum will always pull her out of beauty. I have seen an evaluation: the boys around don’t like the high round. If you ask them how high-definition acting, they will tell you how to act like this. Gao Yuanyuan also knows that few people are an actor when she is, and people are more willing to label her. "I still have a lot of things that I can't do in 22 years." Indeed, she is not the perfect actress in the eyes of the public, the perfect woman. For example, few people have evaluated her acting skills. For example, it is difficult for many people to understand if they have not had children yet... but for her, she does not want to rush to prove anything. "I am 39 years old, I can accept my own mediocrity. When people reach a certain age, they will begin to accept all the imperfections in their lives, including imperfect self. Some people will say, how can Gao Yuanyuan be an ordinary person who is unremarkable? Most ordinary people do not grow into such beauty. Even if you have a face and luck like a high round, there are things you can't do. For example, to prevent yourself from getting old. Whether you are a big beauty or an ordinary passerby, one thing is equal, and that is "going old." Pretty as a high round will also say, I know that I am aging. She looks in the mirror every day and sees her changes. The state is not as good as 20 years old. Today, the first white hair grows, and the first fine line appears on the corner of the day. "In fact, everyone knows that the process of aging is young. Gao Yuanyuan especially dislikes his own law. If the state is not good, the law will become deeper and look old. Which young girl will like the old things On your face? But in recent years, Gao Yuanyuan fell in love with his own decree. Because her decree is exactly the same as her mother. "That wrinkles are so hard for me to grow." Every time I go old, it can be a surprise. Recognizing your own experiences and years, accepting old ages is the beginning of a mature person. Recognizing your own experiences and years, accepting old ages is the beginning of a mature person. When you are young, always compete with yourself, compete with the world, and think that everything is perfect. But you will always know that many things can be done without hard work. A few people are geniuses, and most people are just ordinary people who are not good at many things. The high round of childhood was unique. Because of her beautiful appearance, she was dug into a model at a young age. After shooting the "Qing Mouth" advertisement, it became an unforgettable goddess. Wang Xiaoshuai’s "Seventeen-year-old bicycle" made her the first love in many people's hearts. Although the starting point was high enough, her later experience made her realize that she was not a "genius." When Gao Yuanyuan filmed "Search", he met Chen Kaige, a great director who was particularly strict with the actors. She set a record of NG 40 times. At the beginning, Chen Kaige would also tell her about the show, telling her where she did it wrong. Later, the director also patiently exhausted and said "no". At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was already a "famous actress", but she still did not do well enough. When I am a young boy, I always feel that I am the center of the world, and I always feel that I can have an extraordinary life. However, when I grew up, I found that it is more precious than the ups and downs. "Everything in the world is extraordinary. In the end, we must return to the ordinary. We must use ordinary life to measure its value. Greatness, excitement, and success are nothing. Only when ordinary life is really good, life is perfect." The most escaping thing is to start accepting people who die and die. Because the mother is in poor health, Gao Yuanyuan was particularly scared for a while, afraid of the mother's departure. At that time, she entered and exited the ICU every day. At the beginning, because of her personality problems, it was difficult for her to deal with people. But gradually, she used to deal with all the trivial things on her own, and accepted the mother's departure. Three years ago, her mother died, which changed her attitude towards life. She decided to slow down and spend more time with her family. She let go of herself. Do not ask yourself to do what those geniuses do, do not expect that they will always be young, and those who accept love will eventually leave. Do your best and listen to your destiny. What Gao Yuanyuan wants to accept is what each of us has to accept. But you see, accepting mediocre results is not bad. I haven't filmed in three years, and I almost disappeared into the public eye. She is not the most successful person in the eyes of everyone. "I used to think about whether I should leave more works in the state I think is the best. But I would like to give myself some time to see more possibilities." She got an ordinary love. She and Zhao Youting were very close to each other when they met. There is nothing earth-shattering. Two people are the most comfortable gesture together. Gao Yuanyuan said: "It is completely my dish!" Zhao Youting also said: "Love that does not catch will run away" They held hands in every street and played the road in the middle of the cold winter. Join hands together to return to your hometown and visit relatives and friends. Sitting on the sofa together watching TV, will quarrel about what to watch, and then return to good. Gao Yuanyuan found a simple love at the age of late marriage. This is also a bit of surprise and greatness in mediocrity. At the age of 39, she reconciled with herself and then embraced life. Stop and go every day, travel with friends, talk to friends and drink. We all know that such a life is not great. But I am envious of such ordinary and not great. We are anxious to omit the process and reap the great results. But it was always hit by reality, so we were gray-faced in our lives. We rarely have the chance to really stop and enjoy life itself. The whole process of our lives is more like a continuous emergency action, and we must always eliminate the hidden dangers that threaten our existence. Stop and enjoy a meal, don't rush to get off work; stop to meet someone, don't rush to make a conclusion; even stop to watch a show, don't drag forward... The process itself is really interesting. Just like Shi Tiesheng said, To be simple, any life can be deleted to the point where you can eat and drink, and any novel can be deleted to a few lines. Any history can be deleted to a few symbols. Great men, any feat and escape can be reduced into a glorious plus a shame... But this can't be done. You can't be satisfied with just looking forward to the end as a child. You have to look at the process and see the arduous situation of life from a complicated process to enjoy grand and magnificent. In fact, more things in the world can be deleted but not allowed to be deleted. Do not believe it. For example, if football is a single winner, it can be kicked off as soon as it comes up. What is it for the whole game? When you learn to accept all the results, including the ordinary part, you can enjoy the process itself. Life is short and long. Regardless of age, origin, and status quo, we must have the most distant dreams and the simplest life.